In this Tarzan & Jane Marriage Series post, Jane’s quiet signals go unnoticed as Tarzan chooses avoidance over connection. Discover how silence grows into distance in marriage and what couples can do to prevent stagnation.

Because love doesn’t die from storms alone. It dies when one heart grows numb—and the other doesn’t notice in time.

Because marriages aren’t destroyed by one big storm. They erode into numbness—and that’s when the heart quietly checks out.

This is the trap many marriages fall into. Life gets busy. Words get fewer. Conversations shrink to logistics: schedules, bills, what’s for dinner. And intimacy suffers.

Me Tarzan, Me Silent: Why Communication Breaks Down

Because marriages don’t crumble from too much talking. They crumble when one—or both—stop talking at all.

Because marriage isn’t meant to be just survival. It’s meant to be joy. And no spouse should have to whisper in their heart: Me Jane, Me Wondering.

Me Jane, Me Wondering: Do You Still Like Me?

Love may remain, but what happens when “like” fades?

Me Tarzan, Me Distracted: When Screens Steal Connection

Me Jane, Me Unnoticed: When the Little Things Fade -Love is not proven in grand declarations. It’s in the small, repeated acts that say: I see you. You still matter. You still delight me.

How little daily actions (coffee, goodbye kiss, a hug, noticing effort) are huge in sustaining intimacy. Why “forced” gestures don’t meet the heart’s need.

Me Tarzan, Me Clueless: When Marriage Needs More Than “Good” - How “good” marriages quietly erode through neglect, lack of nurturing, and missed connection.