Me Jane, Me Wondering: Do You Still Like Me?
(Tarzan & Jane Series: Part 4 of 6)
Every marriage carries this unspoken fear: Does my spouse still like me—or do they just love me out of duty?
For Jane, that question echoed louder as the years went by. She knew Tarzan loved her—he provided, he showed up, he stayed. But did he like her anymore? The sharp remarks, the easy frustrations, the silence when she spoke her love—these left her wondering.
They still did life well together. Good roommates. Reliable friends. But Jane didn’t feel treasured. She didn’t feel pursued. She didn’t feel special.
And that’s the quiet heartbreak in many long-term marriages. Love becomes duty, affection becomes habit, and couples forget the joy of liking each other.
The takeaway?
Tell your spouse you love them, yes—but also tell them you like them.
Compliment their quirks. Laugh at their jokes. Enjoy who they are, not just what they do.
Keep pursuing, even decades in.
Because “Me Jane, Me Wondering” is more than a sigh—it’s a plea to feel cherished again.
🌴 Jungle Laugh: “Jane trusted Tarzan with her heart… just not with directions out of the jungle.”
💡 Because if we couldn’t laugh, we would all go insane — Jimmy Buffett
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